Rumor has it...

May 6, 2008

10:02 PM

I'm watching Daily10 in ETC & also PBB Teen Edition Plus in between breaks.

RUMORS ARE MAKING EVERYBODY ARGUE MUCH.

One big thing I learned in life is that, you should think before you speak and make sure that whatever message you relay or whenever you say “she/he says this and that”, make sure you say it exactly or nearly the same as how it was being said. I was a victim before, many times actually. So I guess experience is really the best teacher, and I learn. But sometimes, I do it again. I mean, I’m not perfect.

Now, enough about me. I have this huge idea to really type this thing coz it bugged me so much. People out there should really be careful of what they say. Careful with that mouth of yours, coz that mouth will make great things, May it be good or bad. One big example a while ago was when I was watching PBB Teen Edition Plus. It was during that time when a conflict between the housemates came out because of that big “?” question mark (identity/personality) of their new housemate “Shy.” (Note: I am not destroying anybody’s identity. I’m just sharing my thoughts on the attitudes commonly behaved mostly almost all individual.)

It started when “Shy’s” task is making everybody in the house believe that she has a crush on Josef. Then there was that time when Priscilla had a conversation with her and Shy made said that she pity Josef for being nominated. Later on that day, she told it to the other girls and added a huge detail which makes the idea mistakenly relayed to the other girls. Priscilla added na sinabi ni Shy na sana si ano nalang ang ma-evict. (“ano” word was used and no name was mentioned). Therefore, Nicole was there (where we know that she’s also nominated) and reacted to what she had found out.

In this scenario, it was a clearly huge mistake. Luis Manzano even reacted on it during their airing time in abs-cbn. Clearly, we then see that when we hear rumors, it doesn’t really mean it’s the whole truth. You know what I mean. Haka-haka lang but not really proven true. It may also happen that any rumor na marating sa’yo is not the original story. For the reason that the message is being passed several times already by different people, there’s that big probability that different word was being used in every talking individual. In the case of my example (from PBB), it shows how we commit mistakes even by relaying a simple information to other individual. I respect people who are really talkative, coz I myself is one of a kind talker, however, this may serve as a GOOD EXAMPLE to each one of us here on earth that we should be CAREFUL OF WHAT WE SPEAK and LEARN HOW TO SAY THE EXACT WORD or EXACT THOUGHT so that nobody’s going to be in trouble.